Most cats love to be stroked by their owners. During this pleasant time together, your cat can learn to relax while being examined.

As you stroke your cat from nose to tail tip, feel for any bumps or scabs. Does your cat flinch in discomfort when touched? Your cat can also learn to allow you to hold his head still -- if introduced gradually with praise and treats -- while you look inside his ears and mouth.

If your cat learns to accept gentle exams at home as routine and nonthreatening, he will be less stressed when the veterinarian examines him.

Daily home checkups will also help you find signs of discomfort early, when easiest and most cost-effective to treat.

Animal behavior experts Susan and Roland Tripp are the authors of "On Good Behavior." For more information, visit their Web site at AnimalBehavior.net.